There is an amazing power in rules and rule-making. Rules can maintain a society of cannibals from eating each other as long as the punishment for breaking them is fiercer than the struggle needed to commit the crime.
Anywhere that two human beings come together, a set of rules must come into play. They can be in the form of printed documents or be held at your fingertips. Which then are the rules that hold cougar relationships together?
Must have rules when dating an older woman
Know what you are getting into
Whether it is on the issue of satisfying sex or undivided attention during dates, an older woman will not prove easy to maintain. They can get very demanding and in fact cruel sometimes. But this need not get you down. Show her the stallion you are in bed and how much you are willing to explore the world with her.
Nothing about the age-gap, please
If you want to be on the best terms with yourself and the older woman at all times, it’s best that you don’t bring up the age gap topic. The best way to achieve this is by truly being honest with yourself. Don’t sign up for the relationship if you are not okay with an older woman.
Take off the wet jacket
You know that pose that one takes after having been rained on heavily? That is the exact posture you should avoid whenever you are in the presence of the woman. Keep your shoulders high and maintain eye contact when talking. Come up with suggestions and make several final decisions. In short, kill the boy in you and give him a chance to be the man.
Sex is the cement
While other factors such as communication and honesty will aid in holding the relationship together, nothing compares to the power of great sex. Get online and gather the best sex tips for sex with an older woman.
Old is not always gold
Tricks such as late-night calls and weird pickup lines should be a thing of the past. You can always go back for them once you are in the relationship. For the time being, focus more on restaurants to take her to, gifts she likes, stories she enjoys, and sex positions she screams in.
Understand and keep it to yourself
Understand what is meant by ‘cougar.’ But for any reason, do not let the word slip between your lips. Dating a cougar comes with a lot of responsibilities. For example, you will be seeing money, but do not expect to always ask for the same. From time to time, you may have to help her through issues with ex-husbands, children, and such.
What an older woman expects from a younger man
Without complete knowledge about what is expected of you in a relationship, it will only be a matter of time before you prove to be no benefits to the woman.
In the majority of the cases, younger men are there to provide good sex. Good sex has many meanings. In fact, it may be necessary that you go through full guidelines on how to go about sex with an older woman.
There are some older women mainly looking for a younger man to spend some fun time together. Of course, the sex will be there, but it will not be a priority. In this case, you will be good if you maintain a fun-loving nature.
Due to the diversity of needs and preferences, it may be hard to predict which exact responsibilities are to be given a priority and which ones will come after. Try to get a sense of them on your own, but feel free to ask, too.
The best way is to just find out what your woman likes most and hates just as much. From there, you can isolate the most important responsibilities and so on.
How to know the relationship is working
It is relatively easy to tell if your relationship is working or not. Start by examining how much you know about the woman. What are her passions? Where has she traveled to? How have her past relationships been?
From there, examine the ease and comfort the two of can gather in the presence of one another. For you, it is more about finding more diversified topics to discuss and how the woman responds to your conversations.
Lastly but most importantly, examine the quality and quantity of the sex you are having. If the woman is showing a tendency towards asking for more time, know that you may have just hit the jackpot.
When to end a cougar relationship
The best way to end a cougar relationship is to talk things out and agree that things are not working right.
Just see how much you have come closer to realizing your goals. Have you had the fun you expected? Are there any benefits being reaped from the relationship? What about other factors that may hurt such as what your parents think?